I’ve always been much of a daring person, always loved challenges and putting myself out there, rather than sit pretty and stay comfortable.
There are people i’ve come across who never gave up on spitting the same quanta of untold ignorance, “you’re in your 20s, you shouldn’t push too hard. This isn’t the time where you worry about what you should be doing, and why you’re not making moves to get to where you want to be.”
I would send a smile across, and nod, feigning agreement so they don’t try to convince me further. It always sounded ridiculous to me. Why should I just sit still and look pretty at this age, or settle for lying in bed all day, or staying satisfied, doing nothing, when there’s a lot to test my strengths on. Why shouldn’t I be making moves to achievements, and fulfillment??
The comfort zone is this wonderful place where you can sit pretty and be comfortable. In the comfort zone, you have a good level of assurance that despite not being where you are meant to be, you are okay for the time being.
It might be a physical space or a mental one. One thing is certain though, the comfort zone is a dangerous thing. There are steps you should be taking, moves you should be making to put yourself out there. But you’re not.
In your 20s and 30s, you have got the zeal and energy to make things happen. Your mind is fire and you have so much potential you need to explore. So, why aren’t you popping right now? Because you’re comfy…in the comfort zone.
Unfortunately, the comfort zone isn’t where great things happen. You can’t realise your dreams or start the business you’ve been planning for the past six years in it.
Sure, many of us have heard stories of how opportunities literally fell into the laps of unsuspecting people. This model was discovered by a scout as she went about her shopping in the local mall; Rita Dominic accompanied a friend to an audition and got discovered. But let’s be real, that’s just not everyone’s story. And while you’re waiting for the mystery opportunity, the clock is ticking.
Haven’t you noticed that some of the greatest hustlers are those that started from the bottom? With no safety net or comfort zone, there is no other choice but to hustle for all it’s worth.
It might be a plush prison, but you’re in a holding cell nonetheless. You need to step out, and the time is now.
Leaving is really scary. You’ve got a myriad of fears. What if I fail? Well, so what if you do? If you do, you pick yourself up and go back to the drawing board.
If you don’t try, you’ll never know and will resent yourself in the future for wasting the prime years of your life saying what if?
So what do I do now?
– Tell yourself you need a change.
This first step is very important. It might sound so simple, but you shouldn’t underestimate the power of the spoken word.
If you aren’t convinced in your spirit that you need to take charge of your life, then it doesn’t matter how many times others tell you. You need to tell yourself this, and you need to believe it.
– Start doing the groundwork and looking for opportunities.
Look for opportunities that excite you and scare you at the same time.
– Take a leap of faith!
Go out there and just do it. Take action. It’s not necessarily going to be an easy path but the heat refines the diamond.
Once you get out there, you can really get your hustle on.